Today I am visiting my cousin Margo. She is in hospital and is in a room alone and asleep, so I will not wake her. She must be dreaming because she shakes every so often. I will stay until she wakes, even if a few hours. I won’t write what is wrong with her for her privacy, but she is not well. It is times like this that make you realise that you are getting older, and this sort of visit may become the norm with family members.